I Forgive You, Dad

How recognising my father had autism helped me come to terms with our difficult relationship.

I had a difficult relationship with my father, but not for same reason as other kids. I was not a rebellious rule-breaker and he was not overly strict or neglectful. He did not abuse me or my mother. He was always attentive, generous and ready to help. On outward appearances he was the kind of father my friends wished they had, yet I felt ashamed and guilty for wishing I had a ‘normal’ dad. [Read full article]

Published on Vocal Media - January 2022